About Nicole Colantoni - Dating & Relationships Expert

MEET NICOLE

eharmony Australia’s dating expert as well as POPSUGAR Australia’s former dating & relationship columnist and the host of the acclaimed podcast Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships.

Helping individuals and couples worldwide transform relationship dysfunction into healthy, lasting love —because love shouldn’t have to be figured out by trial and error.

I know what it’s like to feel unlovable and cry yourself to sleep wondering if it’s too late to find love and start a family. It took me years of personal growth and healing to transform my own relationship patterns, but it's never too late to start.

By focusing on our inner selves and developing a positive mindset, we can create meaningful change in our love lives and receive the love and connection we deserve.

Now, as a relationship coach, I help others to transform their love lives by taking a holistic "inside-out" approach to self-care, dating, and relationships. I believe that by understanding and working on our unique patterns, we can learn the lessons needed to break free from them and create more secure relationships.

My mission: To help you date with confidence and transform relationship dysfunction into healthy, lasting love.

To change our relationships, we need to change our patterns.

The good news is, we have the power to change our relationship patterns. I know because I've been there. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and struggled to find healthy love in my own relationships. It took a lot of self-reflection and hard work to change my pattern of chasing toxic love, but it was worth it.

Tune into the podcast: Love Uncensored.

Nicole is the host and creator of the acclaimed podcast Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating and Relationships. Since its launch in late 2021, it has reached hundreds of thousands of people in over 150 countries and has ranked #1 in Australia for the How To All-Time Bestseller category.

Every episode challenges norms and expectations around life, love, and relationships, featuring special guests who aren’t afraid to question the status quo. Tune in for candid conversations and actionable advice designed to help you break free from the past, build healthier relationships, and create the love life you truly want.

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GET TO KNOW ME

Fun Facts

Myers Briggs

INFJ.

IF YOU KNOW ME, YOU KNOW

I love the moon.

FAVE WAY TO UNWIND

At home with my Ragdoll, Luna, and Golden Retriever, Harley.

Something I do despite knowing better

Not get enough sleep.

Fave place

Pittwater, with my partner and dog.

My Love Language

Food.

What drains me?

Big crowds, lack of purpose, small talk, fixed mindsets, admin, and taxes!

Fave Quote

"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars." - Oscar Wilde

Fave Food

Ice cream, and anything cooked by my partner (especially his burgers and steak).

fave book

Don’t make me choose!

Speed

Dating

Round

Here’s how it works.

Love is an inside job.

A strong relationship with yourself paves the way for happy and healthy connections.

By healing attachment wounds and addressing nervous system dysregulation, you not only cultivate a more secure bond with yourself but also set the foundation for fulfilling romantic relationships.

Upgrade yourself by making a commitment to overcome limiting beliefs, put a stop to repeating the same learned patterns of behaviour from childhood, and break generational toxic cycles.

Ready for real change?

Say goodbye to repeating old patterns and hello to a love life that truly serves you.

WORK WITH NICOLE