HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN DATING
THIS WEEK'S NEWSLETTER DELVES INTO THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF MINDSET, ESPECIALLY IN THE REALM OF RELATIONSHIPS AND DATING. DRAWING INSPIRATION FROM TOP ATHLETES LIKE MICHAEL JORDAN, WE EXPLORE THE SIGNIFICANCE OF RESILIENCE, GROWTH, AND LEARNING FROM PERCEIVED SETBACKS. DISCOVER HOW EMBRACING THIS APPROACH CAN NOT ONLY SHAPE YOUR DATING EXPERIENCES BUT CAN ALSO REDEFINE HOW YOU HANDLE REJECTION.
Successful people, whether they're athletes, entrepreneurs, or artists, often credit their achievements to one thing: the right mindset.
When it comes to finding love, your mindset is just as crucial. Take a page from athletes who continually step onto the court, track, or field, regardless of the score. They don't identify with perceived failures or setbacks; instead, they keep failing forward and stay laser-focused on their next shot.
In order to be successful in dating, embrace this same mindset of resilience and growth. See each date as a learning experience, an opportunity to discover what you truly want, and a step closer to finding the right connection.
When faced with rejection, approach it with the same mindset as an athlete. Don't let it shake your self-worth. Instead, view it as a temporary setback and keep your focus on your next opportunity.
“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
- MICHAEL JORDAN
So, remember, just like the most accomplished individuals in the world, it's all about the right mindset. Get out there, take your shot, and keep moving forward.
Until next week!
Nicole is a certified trauma-informed dating and relationship coach who specialises in helping people navigate the complex world of modern love and dating as well as attract and cultivate healthy relationships. Her areas of focus include mindset, attachment, trauma, relationship patterning, inner child and abandonment wounds, communication, conflict management, trust issues, confidence, co-dependency, boundary work, breakups, and infidelity.
